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Recognizing when a friend or colleague feels sad, angry or surprised is key to getting along with others. But a new study sugges

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问题     Recognizing when a friend or colleague feels sad, angry or surprised is key to getting along with others. But a new study suggests that being sensitive to people’s feelings may sometimes come with an extra dose of stress. This and other research challenge the prevailing view that emotional intelligence is uniformly beneficial to its bearer.
    In a study, psychologists Myriam Bechtoldt of the Frankfurt School of Finance and Management in Germany asked 166 male university students a series of questions to measure their emotional intelligence. For example, they showed the students photographs of people’s faces and asked them to what extent feelings such as happiness or disgust were being expressed. The students then had to give job talks in front of judges who displayed serious facial expressions. The scientists measured concentrations of stress hormones in the students’ saliva (唾液) before and after the talk.
    In students who were rated more emotionally intelligent, the stress measures increased more during the experiment and took longer to go back to baseline. The findings suggest that some people may be too emotionally clever for their own good, says Bechtoldt. "Sometimes you can be so good at something that it causes trouble," she notes.
    Indeed, the study adds to previous research hinting at a dark side of emotional intelligence. A study published in 2002 in Personality and Individual Differences suggested that emotionally perceptive people might be particularly influenced by feelings of depression and hopelessness. Furthermore, several studies have implied that emotional intelligence can be used to manipulate others for personal gains.
    More research is needed to see how exactly the relation between emotional intelligence and stress would play out in women and in people of different ages and education levels. Nevertheless, emotional intelligence is a useful skill to have, as long as you learn to also properly cope with emotions—both others’ and your own, says Bechtoldt. For example, some sensitive individuals may assume responsibility for other people’s sadness or anger, which ultimately stresses them out. Remember, as Bechtoldt says, "you are not responsible for how other people feel."
What does the author suggest sensitive individuals do?
选项 A、Avoid burdening themselves with others’ feelings.
B、Rid themselves of worries over worldly affairs.
C、Learn to cope with people’s negative feelings.
D、Help people to deal with their troubles in life.
答案A
解析 题目询问作者给情绪敏感人士的建议。最后一段倒数第2句先是指出情绪敏感的特点；随后在最后一段最后一句中，作者用remember开头的祈使句提出自己的建议：你不用为别人的感受负责(not responsible for how other people feel)。A项“避免用别人的感受给自己造成负担”与之意思一致，故选A项。
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