首页
外语
计算机
考研
公务员
职业资格
财经
工程
司法
医学
专升本
自考
实用职业技能
登录
外语
I grew up deprived of hugs. Neither of my parents was the cuddly type. Greetings involving kissing caused me to wince, and huggi
I grew up deprived of hugs. Neither of my parents was the cuddly type. Greetings involving kissing caused me to wince, and huggi
admin
2012-05-04
49
问题
I grew up deprived of hugs. Neither of my parents was the cuddly type. Greetings involving kissing caused me to wince, and hugging generally just made me feel awkward.
Then one hug changed all that. One month before my 40th birthday my dad had heart surgery. As he came round, days later, he grabbed me and hugged me so hard I had to push with all my might to keep my head from pressing down on his newly stitched torso.
It was a hug to make up for all those we had never had. Days later as he slowly started to gain strength he told me for the first time ever that he loved me, and through my tears I told him I loved him, too.
I began planning how to bake him better—with carrot cakes, victoria sponges, jelly and ice cream. My maternal streak kicked in and I fantasied about wheeling him through the park and feeding him home-made goodies. Then he died.
I felt cheated. All my life I had wondered whether my dad cared for me and loved me—I doubted it. Just as I got proof that he did, he passed away.
My parents split up when I was two years old and, while I had monthly contact with my dad, my bitter stepmother and my father’s old-fashioned stiff upper lip meant we never became close. In fact, I used to dread the visits to see him and count the hours until I could go home again.
When I was very little the weekends at my father’s house felt cold and unfriendly. During my teens the trips to a hostile house became a dread on the horizon for weeks beforehand. Each stay culminated in an uncomfortable peck on the cheek from dad as he said goodbye—a moment I cringed about for hours in advance.
Losing a father whom you have no recollection of ever living with is difficult. Grieving is tricky; I didn’t have any obvious close father-daughter memories to cling to and think and cry over. Most of my memories were of stilted meetings and uncomfortable times together. But I desperately missed him being alive.
As time moved on my grief and anger at his untimely death began to recede. I realized that his affirmation of me from his deathbed had filled a gaping hole of insecurity I had constantly carried around.
To a child a hug says too many things. It tells you that the person hugging you loves you, cares for you. A hug also confirms that you are a lovable being. Months after dad’s death I realized with a jolt that his lack of hugs said more about him than me. My father was not a demonstrative man and I was, therefore, perhaps, a lovable being.
In the end, the author seemed to gain
选项
A、understanding.
B、popularity.
C、confidence.
D、recognition.
答案
C
解析
推断题。由题干中的In the end定位至末段。由第三句及末句可知,作者终于认识到父亲不拥抱她不是因为自己不可爱,而是因为父亲不善于表达。可见,她最终肯定了自己,即获得了自信,C为答案。
转载请注明原文地址:https://kaotiyun.com/show/61mK777K
0
专业英语四级
相关试题推荐
Migrationisusuallydefinedas"permanentofsempermanentchangeofresidence."Thisbroaddefinition,ofcourse,wouldinclude
Whomthebellwasnamedafteraccordingtomostpeople?
ManypeopleinvestinthestockmarkethopingtofindthenextMicrosoftandDell.However,Iknow【C1】______personalexperien
Johnhadnotmuchaffectionforhismotherandsisters,andanantipathytome.Hebulliedandpunishedme;nottwoorthreetim
Sinceveryyoung,weweretoldbyourparentsto______fromspittingonthesidewalk.
He______anothercareerbut,atthetime,hedidn’thaveenoughmoneytoattendgraduateschool.
Whatishistory?Everyhistorianwouldagree,Ithink,thathistoryisakindofresearchorinquiry.Genericallyitbelongsto
Shewashiredonthe______ofhercomputerskills.
ChrisBaildon,tallandlean,wasinhisearlythirties,andtheendproductofanolddecayedislandfamily.Chrisshared
Researchershavefoundexperimentalevidencethatatouchcanbeworthathousandwords.MatthewJ.Hertenstein,aprofessorof
随机试题
铬化合物中,三价铬对人体的危害比六价铬要大100倍。 ()
门静脉高压的三大表现为脾大、_______、腹水。
脑脊液呈毛玻璃样混浊见于()
下列不溶于碳酸氢钠溶液的药物是
公路水运工程试验检测机构等级评定工作中,现场试验操作考核时,选取的新增参数要大于或等于抽取参数总量的30%。()
某生产企业位于某省会城市,2004年5月转让一座旧办公楼,取得转让收入500000元,并收到转账支票一张。已知该办公楼的原价为2000000元,已提折旧1600000元,转让过程中发生清理费用和印花税10000元,款项以银行存款支付。根据上述资料,回答下列
四川和云南的界湖是()。
拣选是配送中心作业活动叶的辅助内容。()(2004年5月助理物流师试题)
设f(x,y)与ψ(x,y)均为可微函数,且ψˊy(x,y)≠0,已知(xo,yo)是f(x,y)在约束条件ψ(x,y)=0下的一个极值点,下列选项正确的是()
A、Keepturningthewheelintheoriginaldirection.B、Turnthewheelintheoppositedirection.C、Turnthewheelintheopposite
最新回复
(
0
)