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Attachment Parenting is not Indulgent Parenting. Attachment parents do not " spoil" their children. Spoiling is done when a chil

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问题     Attachment Parenting is not Indulgent Parenting. Attachment parents do not " spoil" their children. Spoiling is done when a child is given everything that they want regardless of what they need and regardless of what is practical. Indulgent parents give toys for tantrums(发脾气)，ice cream for breakfast. Attachment parents don’t give their children everything that they want, they give their children everything that they need. Attachment parents believe that love and comfort are free and necessary. Not sweets or toys.
    Attachment Parenting is not " afraid of tears" parenting. Our kids cry. The difference is that we understand that tantrums and tears come from emotions and not manipulation. And our children understand this too. They cry and have tantrums sometimes, of course. But they do this because their emotions are so overwhelming that they need to get it out. They do not expect to be " rewarded" for their strong negative emotions: they simply expect that we will listen. We pick up our babies when they cry, and we respond to the tears of our older children because we believe firmly that comfort is free, love is free, and that when a child has need for comfort and love, it is our job to provide those things. We are not afraid of tears. We don’t avoid them. We hold our children through them and teach them that when they are hurt or frustrated we are here to comfort them and help them work through their emotions.
    Attachment Parenting is not Clingy Parenting, I do not cling to my children. In fact, I’m pretty free-range. As soon as they can move they usually move away from me and let me set up a chase as they crawl, run, skip and hop on their merry way to explore the world. Sure, I carry them and hug them and chase them and kiss them and rock them and sleep with them. But this is not me following them everywhere and pulling them back to me. This is me being a home base. The "attachment" comes from their being allowed to attach to us, not from us attaching to them like parental leeches.
    Attachment Parenting is not Selfish Parenting. It is also not selfless parenting. We are not doing it for us, and we are not doing it to torment ourselves.
    Attachment Parenting is not Helicopter Parenting. I don’t hover, I supervise, I follow, I teach, I demonstrate, I explain. I don’t slap curious hands away. I show how to do things safely. I let my child do the things that my child wishes to do, first with help and then with supervision and finally with trust. I don’t insist that my 23 month old hold my hand when we walk on the sidewalk because I know that I can recall him with my voice because he trusts me to allow him to explore and he trusts me to explain when something is dangerous and to help him satisfy his curiosities safely. Most of the negative things that I hear about "attachment parents" are completely off-base and describe something that is entirely unlike Attachment Parenting. Attachment Parenting is child-centric and focuses on the needs of the child. Children need structure, rules, and boundaries. Attachment Parents simply believe that the child and the parent are allies, not adversaries. And that children are taught, not trained.
What makes attachment parents different from indulgent parents is that they
选项 A、show more love to their children.
B、think love is more important.
C、prefer both love and toys in parenting.
D、dislike ice cream or sweets.
答案B
解析 细节题。根据关键信息indulgent parents定位到文章首段。作者首先提出亲密育儿法不同于溺爱育儿法。该段最后部分指出“亲密育儿的家长认为，关爱和安慰都是免费的和必要的。糖果和玩具却不是。”由此可知，亲密育儿法的家长更看重关爱与安慰，因此[B]为答案。两种育儿法的父母肯定都对孩子倾注了关爱，但原文未说哪种育儿法倾注的关爱更多，因此排除[A]；作者认为亲密育儿法的家长更看重关爱与安慰，所以排除[C]；[D]是对作者意思的过度演绎，故排除。
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