To forgive is a virtue, but no one has ever said it is easy. When someone has deeply hurt you, it can be extremely difficult to

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问题     To forgive is a virtue, but no one has ever said it is easy. When someone has deeply hurt you, it can be extremely difficult to let go of your hate. However, forgiveness is possible, and it can be surprisingly beneficial to your physical and mental health. People who forgive show less sadness, anger and stress and more hopefulness, according to a recent research.
    【B1】______Try the following steps:
    Calm yourself.【B2】______You can take a couple of breaths and think of something that gives you pleasure: a beautiful scene in nature, or someone you love.
    Don’ t wait for an apology. Many times the person who hurt you does not intend to apologize. They may have wanted to hurt you or they just don’ t see things the same way.【B3】______Keep in mind that forgiveness does not necessarily mean becoming friends again with the person who upset you.
    Take the control away from your offender(冒犯者). Rethinking about your hurt gives power to the person who causes you pain. Instead of focusing on your mounded feelings, learn to look for the love, beauty and kindness around you.
   【B4】______If you understand your offender, you may realize that he or she was acting out of una-wareness, fear, and even love. You may want to write a letter to yourself from your offender’ s point of view.
    Don’t forget to forgive yourself.【B5】______But it can rob you of your self-confidence if you don’ t do it.
[A]Why should you forgive?
[B]How should you start to forgive?
[C]Recognize the benefits of forgiveness.
[D]Try to see things from your offender’s angle.
[E]For some people, forgiving themselves is the biggest challenge.
[F]To make your anger die away, try a simple stress-management technique.
[G]If you wait for people to apologize, you could be waiting an awfully long time.
【B3】

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答案G

解析 根据上文“不要等别人来道歉。许多时候,伤害你的人没有想过要道歉。他们可能是故意的,也可能只是和你看待事物的方式不一样。”可知,此处应该是:如果你等着别人来道歉,你可能会等令人嫌恶的相当长的时间。故G正确。
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