首页
外语
计算机
考研
公务员
职业资格
财经
工程
司法
医学
专升本
自考
实用职业技能
登录
外语
We have compiled a list of things that expectant couples and new parents can do on their own to reduce the expected strain and e
We have compiled a list of things that expectant couples and new parents can do on their own to reduce the expected strain and e
admin
2013-07-02
56
问题
We have compiled a list of things that expectant couples and new parents can do on their own to reduce the expected strain and enjoy more of the positive side of becoming a family.
Many husbands and wives neglect to share with each other their private notions of the ideal family. They assume that once they’ve decided to have a baby their ideal family picture will take place spontaneously. Others are reluctant to talk about their hopes and anxieties because they are afraid that disagreement or conflict might result from finding that they differ on important issues. Men and women who can talk to each other about what they hope will happen, and what they are concerned might happen, begin their lives as parents feeling better prepared to deal with both the positive and the negative realities.
We suggest that partners try to make a regular time each week to go for a walk, to talk with no interruptions — basically to touch base with each other. Many husbands and wives say the day gets away from them. By the time everything is cleaned up at night, they are too exhausted for intimate conversation. It sounds terribly artificial, but making an appointment or a date can be useful — even if the laundry or dinner dishes have to wait or the "date" must be rescheduled because of a crying baby or fatigue.
If one partner feels that something is a problem, at least for now, it is a problem. We recommend discussing only one problem at a time, with an explicit agreement that other difficulties will be addressed at the next opportunity. If partners can trust that both their issues will be addressed in time, they are less likely to sabotage today’s discussion.
Last but not least, talk with a friend or co-worker. We find that participating in an ongoing group with the help of a trained mental health professional and other couples can buffer men’s and women’s dissatisfaction and keep marital disenchantment from getting out of hand, at least for the first few years. Although these kinds of groups are not available at this time the same kind of sharing of information might come from special friends or co-workers who are willing to talk about their experiences of being partners and parents.
Every couple has both trivial and important issues they need to work out. To cope with the stressful situations you will need to adopt an experimental attitude. The trick is to take a step and shift from a "What are you doing wrong?" position to a "What’s going on in our lives that this is happening now?" attitude. And remember, it’s never too late for a positive change.
It can be inferred from the passage that without professional help, if a wife is dissatisfied with the husband, the better way is to______.
选项
A、turn to a doctor for help
B、hire a nanny to take care of the baby
C、get help from a trained mental health professional
D、share their problems with an intimate friend or co-worker
答案
D
解析
推理判断题。根据文中第五段可知,当夫妻双方有不满情绪时,可以通过有心理健康专业人士或其他夫妻帮助的交流小组得到改善,如果无法加入小组活动时与亲密的朋友同事交谈分享也是很好的办法,但题干中已经限制了条件,所以可排除[C];[D]正确;[A][B]文中未提及。
转载请注明原文地址:https://kaotiyun.com/show/Egn7777K
0
大学英语六级
相关试题推荐
A、Findahotelnearbyagaininafewdays.B、Accommodatehisparentsinhisdormitory.C、Askhisparentsnotcomeuntilhefinds
Friendshipisbothasourceofpleasureandacomponentofgoodhealth.Peoplewhohaveclosefriendsnaturallyenjoytheir【C1】_
Friendshipisbothasourceofpleasureandacomponentofgoodhealth.Peoplewhohaveclosefriendsnaturallyenjoytheir【C1】_
A、Changeherhairstyle.B、Changeherattitudetowardnewthings.C、Getthefearsoutofhermind.D、Tryavirtualmakeoveronth
Anewstudyusesadvancedbrain-scanningtechnologytoeastlightonatopicthatpsychologistshavepuzzledoverformorethan
Anewstudyusesadvancedbrain-scanningtechnologytoeastlightonatopicthatpsychologistshavepuzzledoverformorethan
Anewstudyusesadvancedbrain-scanningtechnologytoeastlightonatopicthatpsychologistshavepuzzledoverformorethan
ElevensummersagoIwassenttoamanagementprogramattheWhartonSchooltobepreparedforbiggerthings.Alongwithlecture
ElevensummersagoIwassenttoamanagementprogramattheWhartonSchooltobepreparedforbiggerthings.Alongwithlecture
A、Hercarisbeingrepaired.B、Shewantstohelpreducepollution.C、Parkingisdifficultinthecity.D、Thecostoffuelhasin
随机试题
行政管理除必须依照宪法、法律、行政法规、行政规章等对国家事务和社会公共事务管理外,还由()授权,管理公务,对公众负责。
会计核算的环节包括()。
Nothing in my life moved me( )this first visit to China.
法定福利包括( )。
某公司高级工程师陈先生2009年3月取得如下收入:(1)工资收入7000元;(2)一次性稿费收入5000元;(3)一次性讲学收入500元;(4)一次性翻译资料收入3000元;(5)到期国债利息收入1286元;
2009年3月,美国汤姆公司与中国天元公司订立合同,约定汤姆公司以现金、机器设备和专有技术作价800万美元出资,天元公司以现金、场地使用权、厂房作价200万美元出资,在中国上海设立一家中外合资经营企业。(1)汤姆公司由合营企业提供担保向银行贷款2
如果石油供应出现波动导致国际油价上涨,在开放市场国家,如美国,国内油价也会上升,不管这些国家的石油是全部进口还是完全不进口。以上论述最能支持以下哪个结论?
设位于第一卦限的曲线y=f(χ)上任一点P(χ,y)的切线在χ轴上的截距等于该点法线在y轴上截距的相反数,且曲线经过点(1,0),求该曲线.
设有关系R(A,B,C)和S(A,D),则自然连接运算结果中的元数应为
AMessontheLadderofSuccessA)ThroughoutAmericanhistorytherehasalmostalwaysbeenatleastonecentraleconomicnarrati
最新回复
(
0
)