Advice for Families from the Scottish Council for Research in Education. "If you are worried discuss this with a teacher."

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问题    Advice for Families from the Scottish Council for Research in Education.
   "If you are worried discuss this with a teacher."
   Bullying is not easy to define. Sometimes it involves hitting or kicking. But threats, teasing, and taunting are more common and can be more damaging. The word "bullying" is used to describe many different Woes of behaviour ranging from teasing or deliberately leaving an individual out of a social gathering or deliberately leaving un individual out of a social gathering or ignoring them, to serious assaults and abuse. Sometimes it is an individual who is doing the bullying and sometimes it is a group.
   The important thing is not the action but the effect on the victim. No one should ever underestimate the fear that a bullied child feels.
   This advice sums up the most important actions to take:
   If someone in your family is being bullied at school, you have to do something to help. You must talk to a teacher.
   If you are worried that someone in your family may be bullied -- discuss this with a teacher.
   If you want to help rid schools of bullying -- work with the teachers to make school safer and happier.
   If you are not satisfied with the school’s response, do not give up -- other sources of help are available.
   Support and understanding at home are important in helping people to cope with bullying -- families should do all they can to help children and young people value themselves.
   Children and young people who witness or become aware of bullying may be unsure what to do and whether they should tell someone. Make sure they know that they should talk to a parent or teacher, and why.
   The KEY MESSAGES to get across to the person being bullied are:
   It’s not your, fault that you are being bullied.
   You don’t have to face this on your own.

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答案 “如果你感到忧虑,请与孩子的老师谈谈。” 给恃强凌弱行为下定义不是很容易。有时指踢打,但威胁、嘲笑、奚落更为普遍,也更具伤害性。“恃强凌弱”这个词被用来描述从嘲笑,有意将某个人孤立于社交聚会之外或加以忽视到严重的侵犯和辱骂等多种不同类型的行为。实施欺侮行为的有时是一个,有时是一个群体。 重要的不是欺侮行为的本身,而是它对受害者造成的影响。人们不应该低估受欺侮的孩子所感到的恐惧。 下面的这些忠告总结了针对恃强凌弱行为所应采取的最重要的措施: 如果你家中有人在学校受到欺侮,你必须给他帮助,你应该跟他的老师谈谈。 如果你担心家中有人可能会受到欺侮,找他的老师沟通一下。 如果你想帮助学校消除恃强凌弱的现象,与老师们合作,使学校变得更安全,更令人愉快。 如果你对学校的反应不满意,别放弃——其他机构也可以为你提供帮助。 来自家庭的支持和理解对帮助人们处理受人欺侮的问题非常重要——家庭成员应该竭尽全力帮助孩子和年轻人珍视自己。 亲眼目睹或意识到恃强凌弱行为的孩子和平轻人也许不知道该做什么以及是否应告诉别人。一定要让他们知道他们应当跟父母或老师谈谈以及为什么要这样做。 让遭到欺侮的人理解的关键信息是: 被人欺侮不是你的错,你不必独自一人面对这个问题。

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