首页
外语
计算机
考研
公务员
职业资格
财经
工程
司法
医学
专升本
自考
实用职业技能
登录
考研
While everyone is different, there arc a few common themes that surface for those with a history of abuse. For instance, it’s un
While everyone is different, there arc a few common themes that surface for those with a history of abuse. For instance, it’s un
admin
2016-08-02
20
问题
While everyone is different, there arc a few common themes that surface for those with a history of abuse. For instance, it’s unlikely that one who suffered abuse was taught much about boundaries. Yet good boundaries are inherent in any healthy relationship. This comes up in a variety of ways. For example, many couples have learned to be very careful not to say hurtful things to their partner during a fight; they’ve learned not to be flirtatious with others if they are in an exclusive relationship. ’ These may seem like small concerns, but they actively maintain safety and respect, both for each other and for the integrity of the relationship.
People without abuse history typically recognize when another person(man or woman)is "coming onto" them inappropriately, and they have no trouble telling the "intruder," so to speak, to back off. With abuse history, especially if the abuse was chronic, we don’t even recognize inappropriate behavior, because such behavior was "normalized" during one’s childhood. The abuse survivor then is less likely to take steps to protect oneself, and is left with an array of feelings, including frustration, disappointment, confusion, anger, and resignation. How different it becomes when the survivor learns to recognize inappropriate behavior for what it is, use appropriate boundaries, move on, and then be able to open to what we do want, a person who is respectful, loving, honest, and so on. "As children, when our parents directly contradict our inner voice, our intuitive knowing, we’ll trust them and discount our own truth. As adults, we have to learn to trust our intuition all over again. "
Another unfortunate, but repairable, side effect of sexual abuse is that we have often lost trust in our intuition. If our intuition told us that something that happened wasn’t right, hut all the adults in our family said, "I don’t see any problem here", or "You’re lying! Shame on you!" we get confused. As children we need to trust our parents for our basic survival. When our parents say and do things that directly contradict our inner voice, our intuitive knowing, we’ll trust mom or dad, and discount ourselves. For children, it’s safer this way. But as adults, it takes retraining to trust our intuition again. This is a gradual process, but it can be done. Once we trust our inner knowing more fully, we become confident, more empowered, and more able to receive what is beneficial to us.
Love, trust, intimacy, and ease are not only possible; they are our birthright. We mustn’t allow someone else’s violation of us to impede our right to love and be loved. Thankfully, we don’t have to.
According to the text, as an adult, you should______.
选项
A、appreciate the amazing power of your intuition
B、know how your inner self communicates with you
C、enjoy the blessing of love, trust, intimacy and ease
D、learn to treasure all the beneficial things in your life
答案
B
解析
根据第三段中的“But as adults,it takes retraining to trust our intuition again.…Once wetrust our inner knowing more fully,we become confident,more empowered,and more able to receivewhat is beneficial to us”,B应为答案。
转载请注明原文地址:https://kaotiyun.com/show/H9oZ777K
0
考研英语一
相关试题推荐
Organizationsandsocietiesrelyonfinesandrewardstoharnesspeople’sself-interestintheserviceofthecommongood.Thet
Intheiridlemoments,historiansoccasionallyspeculateonhowtheworldwouldbedifferentifAdolfHitlerhadpassedtheentr
Intheiridlemoments,historiansoccasionallyspeculateonhowtheworldwouldbedifferentifAdolfHitlerhadpassedtheentr
Organizationsandsocietiesrelyonfinesandrewardstoharnesspeople’sself-interestintheserviceofthecommongood.Thet
Organizationsandsocietiesrelyonfinesandrewardstoharnesspeople’sself-interestintheserviceofthecommongood.Thet
Thistimelastyearthreeoutoffour16to24-year-oldswerewearingthewhitebandofMakePovertyHistory.Whateverthecampa
随机试题
新生儿,男,生后3天。体重3200g,皮肤巩膜发黄,血清总胆红素280μmol/L。根据该新生儿的临床表现,应考虑为
A.人B.禽C.猪D.蚊E.鼠骨综合征出血热的主要传染源是
影响药物制剂稳定性的处方因素不包括
常用的生物碱沉淀试剂为
通货膨胀中的物价上涨具有的特点有()。
红叶公司2006年7月领取了工商营业执照,之后设置了账簿,进行会计核算。该公司财务人员感到自身账簿核算很不规范,容易被查出问题,便于次年11月份将开业以来的账簿及发票自行进行了销毁。2009年3月,主管税务机关在检查中发现了这一情况,对该公司进行了严厉的处
下列关于计量单元的表述中,不正确的是()。
简述招摇撞骗罪与诈骗罪。
VisualBasic中,日期“1999年6月18日”的表达形式为()。
以下程序的输出结果是()。#include<iostream.h>main(){in(b[3][3]={0,1,2,0,1,2,0,1,2},i,j,t=1;f
最新回复
(
0
)