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Love is probably the best antidepressant there is because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved. Most
Love is probably the best antidepressant there is because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved. Most
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2011-02-25
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Love is probably the best antidepressant there is because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved. Most depressed people don’t love themselves and they do not feel loved by others. They also are very self-focused, making them less attractive to others and depriving them of opportunities to learn the skills of love. There is a mythology in our culture that love just happens. As a result, the depressed often sit around passively waiting for someone to love them. But love doesn’t work that way. To get love and keep love you have to go out and be active and learn a variety of specific skills.
Most of us get our ideas of love from popular culture. We come to believe that love is something that sweeps us off our feet. But the pop-culture ideal of love consists of unrealistic images created for entertainment, which is one reason so many of us are set up to be depressed. It’s part of our national vulnerability, like eating junk food, constantly stimulated by images of instant gratification. We think it is love when it’s simply distraction and infatuation. One consequence is that when we hit real love we become upset and disappointed because there are many things that do not fit the cultural ideal.
Limerance is the psychological state of deep infatuation. It feels good but rarely lasts. Limerance is that first stage of mad attraction whereby all the hormones are flowing and things feel so right. Limerance lasts, on average, six months. It can progress to love. Love mostly starts out as limerance, but limerance doesn’t always evolve into love.
Love is a learned skill, not something that comes from hormones or emotion particularly. Erich Fromm called it "an act of will. " If you don’t learn the skills of love you virtually guarantee that you will be depressed, not only because you will not be connected enough, but because you will have many failure experiences.
There are always core differences between two people, no matter how good or close you are, and if the relationship is going right those differences surface. The issue then is to identify the differences and negotiate them so that they don’t distance you or kill the relationship. You do that by understanding where the other person is coming from, who that person is, and by being able to represent yourself. When the differences are known you must be able to negotiate and compromise on them until you find a common ground that works for both.
Erich Fromm called love "an act of will" because______.
选项
A、you have to wait to get love
B、love is something you can get when you want
C、love is a skill you have to learn
D、you can only get love after many failures
答案
C
解析
细节题;我们首先寻找原文中“an act of will”,观察原段落我们可以看到这里的表达是为了证实原来的段落主旨,也就是“Love is a learned skill”。在4个选项中,C选项和这里的表达意义类似,是正确答案。或者我们可以在找到这个表达在原文的位置之后,查看后面的分析部分,“If you don’t learn the skills of love you virtuallv guarantee that you will be depressed”也可以帮助我们最终把正确答案定位在C选项上。
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