被与自己的思想、信仰及兴趣相仿的人所吸引,那是很自然的事。同样,与体貌特征跟自己相仿的人相处,亦让人感到舒适。 您也许已经注意到生活和工作中紧密相处的人是如何在举止上趋于类同的。我们常常会不自觉地模仿我们所接近、所爱、所仰慕的人。因此,球迷会模仿某

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问题     被与自己的思想、信仰及兴趣相仿的人所吸引,那是很自然的事。同样,与体貌特征跟自己相仿的人相处,亦让人感到舒适。
    您也许已经注意到生活和工作中紧密相处的人是如何在举止上趋于类同的。我们常常会不自觉地模仿我们所接近、所爱、所仰慕的人。因此,球迷会模仿某个运动员独有的耸肩行走的样子;一对情人连摇头的方式也相同;而雇员则会学他老板的习惯,也在思考问题时手指间玩弄一支笔。
    有影响的人物并非在所有的情形中都有意识地觉察到这种仿效,但是这种仿效的存在会使他感到舒服。如果他确实察觉到别人的手势或动作与他一样,他会感到高兴,因为那意味着他对别人产生影响,他对这些人有吸引力。

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答案 It’s quite a natural thing that someone is attracted by the person whose thought, faith and interest are similar to his. Equally, getting along with those who have similar characteristics of appearance with you makes you feel comfortable. You may have noticed that people getting along closely with each other in life and work tend to be similar in behavior. We will often imitate those we approach, love, or admire unconsciously. Therefore, football fans will imitate a certain athlete’s unique way to walk with shrugging shoulders; even two lovers’ way of shaking heads is the same. Employees will imitate their employers’ habit of playing with a pen among fingers while pondering over a question. The influential persons aren’t aware of this kind of imitation in all situations consciously, but the existence of this imitation will make them feel comfortable. He will be glad if he indeed notices that others’ gestures or movements are identical to his, because that means he has exerted an influence on others and thus he is attractive to those people.

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