首页
外语
计算机
考研
公务员
职业资格
财经
工程
司法
医学
专升本
自考
实用职业技能
登录
外语
Earn Your Parent’s Trust 1.【T1】______ of privileges that you want The reason why parents don’t give you privileges Kids may use
Earn Your Parent’s Trust 1.【T1】______ of privileges that you want The reason why parents don’t give you privileges Kids may use
admin
2021-05-13
43
问题
Earn Your Parent’s Trust
1.【T1】______ of privileges that you want
The reason why parents don’t give you privileges
Kids may use approval as【T2】______ and ask more
Propose a conclusive list of【T3】______ of privileges
Don’t ask for too much at once
Earning trust: a【T4】____ project
Prove it & ask for more gradually
2. Start the conversation from an empathetic【T5】______
Admit that parents’ fear are【T6】______
Don’t 【T7】______ demands
3. Present desired privileges and reasons, and make a 【T8】______
Discuss what’s on your list
Demonstrate good qualities & 【T9】______for more freedom
Negotiate and come to terms
Remember trust-building is a process
Show your 【T10】______and achieve more in the future
【T9】
Earn Your Parent’s Trust
Do you feel suffocated by your parents’ overly strict demands? Do you find yourself at home, left out from your friends because your parents have so many rules? One of the hardest things to do as a parent is to trust kids with their independence because there’s no one-size-fits-all formula that works for every child. Instead, teenagers have to earn their parents’ trust and prove that they can enjoy independence without abusing the privilege. Today’s lecture will teach you how to earn your parents’ trust.
[1]First, make a list of what specific privileges you’d like from your parents. Part of the reason your parents don’t want to let you do anything they feel even mildly uncomfortable with may be that [2]they’re afraid if they let you do one thing, you may use that as an excuse to ask for other privileges. [3]You can minimize this by coming up with a conclusive list of a reasonable number of privileges. For example, depending on your age, your list may include: curfew extended to 11 p.m. on Friday nights, and hanging out after school is OK if home by dinner time- (6:30 p.m.), etc.
Don’t ask for too many privileges at once, or you risk angering your parents and getting none. [4]Remember that the process of earning your parents’ trust is a long-term project. When you’ve shown your parents that you can handle a few privileges, you can gradually increase your freedom later on and ask for more.
[5]Second, start the conversation from an empathetic standpoint. [6]Acknowledge that your parents have reasonable fears about letting you do your own thing more. [7]Bring your list to the conversation, but don’t go straight to your demands. Instead, approach the conversation with something like: "Hey mom and dad, I understand why you feel nervous about letting me hang out with my friends whenever I want, because you don’t know precisely what we’re doing and you can’t be there in case something goes wrong. But I think we can come to a compromise on this issue; I think I’ve earned your trust to enjoy some more privileges. I’m a maturing, growing teenager—almost 17 years old—and I need to start exercising my judgment and making some of my own choices."
[8]Furthermore, present your desired privileges and your deserving reasons, and be ready to compromise. [9]Discuss what’s on your list and have specific examples on-hand to demonstrate your good qualities and your readiness for increased privileges. Your parents may engage in negotiations with you over certain privileges or parts of them, and you should take that as a step in the right direction. In the end, you will have to compromise. Your parents may not give you everything you want, but that’s OK [10]Remember that trust-building is a process—if you show that you can be responsible about the privileges they do give you, you can push the envelope in a future conversation.
Most parents tend to be overprotective. Try to understand that it is all out of love and care. From now on, earn their trust and approval through reasoning and action, rather than drama or fighting.
选项
答案
readiness
解析
本题考查细节。录音提到,应向父母展示自己好的品质,并让他们相信自己对更多的特权已经做好了准(readiness for increased privileges)。提纲中more freedom是对原文increased privileges的同义改写。故本题填入readiness。
转载请注明原文地址:https://kaotiyun.com/show/XD3K777K
0
专业英语四级
相关试题推荐
_______thebosssays,itisunreasonabletoaskmetoworkovertimewithoutpay.
SuperstitionOnepersoninfourinBritainis,apparently,superstitious./They’recarefulaboutcats./Blackcatsaresup
______thebosssays,itisunreasonabletoaskmetoworkovertimewithoutpay.
Childrenwhostayawayfromschooldo______fordifferentreasons.
A、Examplesofdifferenttypeschildren.B、Howtorunparentingworkshops.C、Thewaytocommunicatewithchildren.D、Thewaytoc
SomepeoplesaythatrichparentsaremorepowerfulthandiplomainChina.Isitreallythecase?Lookatthefollowingpicture
Thelittleboyslippedoutoftheroomandheadedfortheswimmingpoolwithouthisparents’_____.
A.contraryB.exclaimedC.extensivelyD.affectedE.priorF.demandsG.soH.impactI.reasonsJ.relatetoK.specifical
随机试题
影响健康信息传播效果的主要因素不包括
致龋能力最强的是
转录起始于DNA模板上的特定部位,该部位称为转录起始位点,能够被RNA聚合酶识别,从而调控转录的过程的一段特殊序列称为启动子,下列关于启动子的说法不正确的是
某施工企业于2009年12月1日收到投资人投入的原材料一批,合同约定该批材料的价值为200万元,则这批材料应作为企业的()处理。
()是卖方须将货物交给买方指定的承运人,从交货地至目的地的运费由买方负担。
两个以上法院都有管辖权的诉讼,原告可以向其中一个法院起诉(选择管辖);原告向两个以上有管辖权的法院起诉的,由最先立案的法院管辖。()
增值税扣税凭证,是指增值税专用发票、海关进口增值税专用缴款书、农产品收购发票和农产品销售发票以及运输费用结算单据。()
习近平指出:“人民民主是社会主义的生命。没有民主就没有社会主义,就没有社会主义的现代化,就没有中华民族伟大复兴。”社会主义民主的本质和核心是()
TheIndustrialRevolutionstartedin______around1733andasnewinventionswerebeingcreated,factoriesfollowedsoonthereaf
Whatdevelopmentcausedadeclineintheuseofrailroads?
最新回复
(
0
)