首页
外语
计算机
考研
公务员
职业资格
财经
工程
司法
医学
专升本
自考
实用职业技能
登录
考研
You must have been troubled by when to say "I love you" because it is one of the greatest puzzles in our life. What if you s
You must have been troubled by when to say "I love you" because it is one of the greatest puzzles in our life. What if you s
admin
2012-02-02
53
问题
You must have been troubled by when to say "I love you" because it is one of the greatest puzzles in our life.
What if you say it first and your partner doesn’t love you back? Or if they do say it, but you don’t feel they mean it? Being the first to declare your love can be ever racking (紧 张) and risky and can leave you feeling as vulnerable as a turtle (海龟) with no shell. But is the person who says it first really in a position of weakness? Doesn’t it pay to hold back, play it cool and wait until the other half has shown their hand first?
"A really good relationship should be about being fair and being equal," says psychologist Sidney Crown. "But love is seldom equal. " All relationships go through power struggles but, he says, if a love imbalance continues for years, the rot will set in. "That feeling of ’I’ve always loved you more’ may be subverted (颠覆,破坏) for a time, but it never goes away completely and it often emerges in squabbling (大声争吵). " In love, at least, the silent, withholding type is not always the most powerful. "The strongest one in a relationship is often the person who feels confident enough to talk about their feelings," says educational psychologist Ingrid Collins. Psychosexual therapist Paula Hall agrees. "The one with the upper hand is often the person who takes the initiative. In fact, the person who says ’I love you’ first may also be the one who says ’I’m bored with you’ first. " Hall believes that much depends on how "I love you" is said and the motivation of the person saying it. "Is it said when they’re drunk? Is it said before their partner files off on holiday, and what it really means is ’Please don’t be unfaithful to me’? By saying ’I love you’, they are really saying ’Do you love me?’ If so, wouldn’t it just be more honest to say that?" Collins agrees that intention is everything. "It’s not what is said, but how it’s said What it comes down to is the sincerity of the speaker. " (354 words)
In the first sentence the author means that______.
选项
A、it is easy to say "I love you"
B、it is hard to say "I love you"
C、we have many troubles in our life
D、people usually do not know when to say "I love you"
答案
D
解析
转载请注明原文地址:https://kaotiyun.com/show/f3na777K
本试题收录于:
艺术硕士(艺术基础)题库专业硕士分类
0
艺术硕士(艺术基础)
专业硕士
相关试题推荐
Sincewearesocialbeings,thequalityofourlivesdependsinlargemeasureonourinterpersonalrelationships.Onestrengtho
Forcenturies,explorershaveriskedtheirlivesventuringintotheunknownforreasonsthatweretovaryingdegreeseconomican
Nearlyall"speedreading"courseshavea"pacing"element—sometimingdevicewhichletsthestudentknowhowmanywordsaminut
Mostepisodesofabsent-mindedness—forgettingwhereyouleftsomethingorwonderingwhyyoujustenteredaroom—arecausedbya
Thereseemsnevertohavebeenacivilizationwithouttoys,butwhenandhowtheydevelopedisunknown.Theyprobablycameabout
Indepartmentstoresandclosetsallovertheworld,theyarewaiting.Theiroutwardappearanceseemsratherappealingbecauset
Britishuniversities,groaningundertheburdenofahugeincreaseinstudentnumbers,arewarningthatthetraditionofafree
Britishuniversities,groaningundertheburdenofahugeincreaseinstudentnumbers,arewarningthatthetraditionofafree
Itwasnot“thecometofthecentury”expertspredicteditmightbeNevertheless,Kohoutekhasprovidedabonanzaofscientificinf
Thereseemsnevertohavebeenacivilizationwithouttoys,butwhenandhowtheydevelopedisunknown.Theyprobablycameabout
随机试题
《共同纲领》规定的新中国外交工作的原则是()
A、太溪、三阴交B、中脘、足三里C、照海、神庭D、丰隆、劳宫D
患儿,女,8岁。3岁始每次精力不集中时出现斜视,近半年在玩耍时喜闭一眼。查:视力:1.0(OU),眼位33cm映光一10°~一15°,有时可正位。三棱镜中和:33cm:一30△,6m:一25△。眼球运动:各个方向到位,眼球前后节未见异常,同视机:Ⅰ级(狮笼
新起畏寒,脘腹或腰背等处冷痛、喜温,多见于新起恶寒,或无发热,头身疼痛,无汗,多见于
与气的生成密切相关的脏是
下列对桥梁上部结构采用先张法预应力筋张拉操作时的施工要点叙述有误的是()。
给定资料1.2015年5月15日,由工业和信息化部指导、中国通信学会主办的2015年世界电信和信息社会日大会在北京举行02015年世界电信和信息社会日的主题是“电信与信息通信技术:创新的驱动力”。工业和信息化部总工程师张某表示,当前全球正掀起新
Thespeaker’sfinancialproblemisaboutthelivingexpensesincollege.Hethinksthatthetuitionfeesandlivingcostsarere
WhydidNiragotocourt?
Ifyou’vetakenapersonalitytestbefore,youknowitcanbeatediousandfrustratingprocess.Theprospectofansweringcount
最新回复
(
0
)