首页
外语
计算机
考研
公务员
职业资格
财经
工程
司法
医学
专升本
自考
实用职业技能
登录
考研
[A] Leave them behind [B] Change the subject [C] Limit the time you spend with them [D] Don’ t make their problems your problems
[A] Leave them behind [B] Change the subject [C] Limit the time you spend with them [D] Don’ t make their problems your problems
admin
2017-01-12
64
问题
[A] Leave them behind
[B] Change the subject
[C] Limit the time you spend with them
[D] Don’ t make their problems your problems
[E] Don’t pretend that their behavior is "OK".
[F] Talk about solutions, not problems
[G] Speak up for yourself
Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it. But that couldn’t be farther from the truth. If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.
【R1】______
First, let’ s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend. In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’ s bad mood. Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.
【R2】______
This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it. But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.
【R3】______
Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them. This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy. Why else would they be sharing this with you?
【R4】______
When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said. Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.
【R5】______
Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive. I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based. You can do this by asking questions like, "Well, how could this be resolved?" or, "How do you think they feel about it?" Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.
【R4】
选项
答案
B
解析
本段第一句即指出be a champion of positivity by changing the subject(改变这个话题,赢得正能量),最后再次重复道move the conversation forward before…(在……之前赶快转移话题),可见本段主要讲与负能量的人相处,要学会及时改变话题。因此B项Change the subject(改变话题)为正确答案。
转载请注明原文地址:https://kaotiyun.com/show/fEEZ777K
0
考研英语一
相关试题推荐
JudithVogtli,directorofanupstateNewYork-basedabstinence(thepracticeofrefrainingfromsex,alcohol,etc)organizationc
JudithVogtli,directorofanupstateNewYork-basedabstinence(thepracticeofrefrainingfromsex,alcohol,etc)organizationc
JudithVogtli,directorofanupstateNewYork-basedabstinence(thepracticeofrefrainingfromsex,alcohol,etc)organizationc
Humanlanguageisthesubjectofendlessscientificinvestigation,butthegesturesthataccompanyspeechareasurprisinglyneg
Ifthereisonecentral,recurringmistaketheUnitedStatesmakeswhendealingwiththerestoftheworld,itistoassumethat
Parentslookingtosteertheirteensawayfromdrugsmaywanttoencouragethemstayinbedlonger.Lackofsleepseemstolead
Asimpleideasupportsscience:"trust,butverify".Resultsshouldalwaysbe【C1】______tochallengefromexperiment.Thatsimple
Asimpleideasupportsscience:"trust,butverify".Resultsshouldalwaysbe【C1】______tochallengefromexperiment.Thatsimple
WhenPaulGorski,thefounderofanorganizationcalledEdChange,visitscollegesanduniversitiestoadvisethemoncampusdive
随机试题
将湿空气转变成干空气的方法有哪些?
年终结账时,应在“本年合计”下面通栏划双红线。()
某企业以CIF成交方式购进一台砂光机,先预付设备款25000港币,发货时再支付设备价款40000港币,并另直接支付给境外某权利所有人专用技术使用费15000港币.此外,提单上列明THC费为500港币,该批货物经海关审定的成交价格为()。
外商甲与内资企业乙拟设立一股份有限公司,注册资本为3000万元(每股1元),根据我国法律法规的规定,甲持有的股份最低应为()股。
标志着中国半殖民地半封建社会基本形成的不平等条约是()。
下列属于民事法律调整的行为的是()。
诺维斯公司有10000股票发行在外,且股利支付率为100%,该公司的净收入为32000美元,公司一年的预期价值为1545600美元。诺维斯公司适用的折现率为12%。该公司当前的价值是多少?
StandardEnglishisthevarietyofEnglishwhichisusuallyusedinprintandwhichisnormallytaughtinschoolsandtonon-nat
Whatpointismadeinthefirstparagraph?Davenportsuggestsorganisingcompanyconferencesbecause
WhatkindofcompanyisKleinfelder?Kleinfelderisa/an______company.Besidestheusualpaymentandbenefit,whatelsemak
最新回复
(
0
)