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Good Communication for Making Friends As a communication skills trainer, I’ve met a wide range of people. Some people have t
Good Communication for Making Friends As a communication skills trainer, I’ve met a wide range of people. Some people have t
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2012-10-13
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Good Communication for Making Friends
As a communication skills trainer, I’ve met a wide range of people. Some people have trouble associating with others and have difficulty making friends. So I would like to discuss two key points to making good friends. The first is to show respect and love for your friends through your words. Try to say things to others that would feel good to you if you heard them. For example, say things like, "Thanks for the great time" and "It was really nice to get to know you. " If you are not good at speaking, then smiling and using body language to express your sincerity is also an effective way to communicate. Additionally, ! recommend that when you meet someone new send them an e-mail or letter before the day is over to express how nice it was to meet them.
The goal of good communication is to reach another person’s heart and form a comfortable relationship. It is, therefore, based on the premise that you get rid of your worries and become a bright and positive person. When there is static noise over the phone line, you can’t hear the other person clearly, right? In the same way, when your mind is full of worries and you try to communicate with another person, you cannot give or receive messages accurately. For example, let’s say you are still tied to a past wound of being betrayed by a friend and feeling hurt. Even if you meet someone new and he or she tells you, "Let’s be good friends, " you may not be able to accept it because you will hear a negative inner voice saying something like "I might be betrayed again" or "the person might have a hidden agenda. " With this worry in your mind, you will not be able to make friends.
If you can be refreshed and get rid of your worries, you should be able to sense others’ thoughts and feelings without prejudice and build a relationship of trust. If you really can’t let go of your painful past experience, then try to change your perspective on the experience. For example, try to think that it was a necessary lesson for you to understand others’ pain. If you can think of the positive intention behind the event, then you will be able to view the experience favourably and feel better.
Which of the following statements is NOT true according to the passage?( )
选项
A、Body language is as effective as saying things that will make friends feel better.
B、If you distrust others, then it’s difficult for you to make new friends.
C、The writer conducted a research on how people communicate with their friends.
D、Minds full of worries will do great harm to interpersonal relationship.
答案
C
解析
本题可采用排除法。第一段中,作者谈到了有关肢体语言能帮助我们有效交流的内容,因此选项A正确。第二段后半部分,作者举例讲了交友中如果不信任对方会出现什么情况,因此选项B正确。第二、三段作者重点讲了交友中焦虑带来的负面影响,并给出了克服它的方法;因此选项D也正确。
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