首页
外语
计算机
考研
公务员
职业资格
财经
工程
司法
医学
专升本
自考
实用职业技能
登录
外语
You must have been troubled by when to say "I love you" because it is one of the greatest puzzles in our life. What if you sa
You must have been troubled by when to say "I love you" because it is one of the greatest puzzles in our life. What if you sa
admin
2011-03-01
50
问题
You must have been troubled by when to say "I love you" because it is one of the greatest puzzles in our life.
What if you say it first and your partner doesn’ t love you back? Or if they do say it but you don’t feel they mean it? Being the first to declare your love can be nerve-racking(紧张) and risky and can leave you feeling as vulnerable as a turtle with no shell. But is the person who says it first really in a position of weakness? Doesn’t it pay to hold back, play it cool and wait until the other half has shown their hand first?
"A really good relationship should be about being fair and being equal," says psychologist Sidney Crown. "But love is seldom equal." All relationships go through power struggles but, he says, if a love imbalance continues for years, the rot will set in. "That feeling of ’I’ ve always loved you more’ may be subverted(颠覆,破坏) for a time, but it never goes away completely and it often emerges in squabbling(大声争吵)." In love, at least, the silent, withholding type is not always the most powerful. "The strongest one in a relationship is often the person who feels confident enough to talk about their feelings," says educational psychologist Ingrid Collins. Psychosexual therapist Paula Hall agrees. "The one with the upper hand is often the person who takes the initiative. In fact, the person who says ’I love you’ first may also be the one who says ’I’ m bored with you’ first. " Hall believes that much depends on how "I love you" is said and the motivation of the person saying it. "Is it said when they’ re drunk? Is it said before their partner flies off on holiday, and what it really means is ’Please don’t be unfaithful to me’ ? By saying ’I love you’, they really saying ’Do you love me?’ If so, wouldn’ t it just be more honest to say that?" Collins agrees that intention is everything. "It’ s not what is said, but how it’ s said. What it comes down to is the sincerity of the speaker.
What is the main idea of this passage?
选项
A、The importance of "I love you".
B、The meaning of "I love you".
C、The time of saying "I love you".
D、The place of saying "I love you".
答案
C
解析
这篇文章主要讲述的是说“我爱你”的时机,是采取主动还是处于被动,以及说话者的动机。
转载请注明原文地址:https://kaotiyun.com/show/iJkd777K
本试题收录于:
公共英语三级笔试题库公共英语(PETS)分类
0
公共英语三级笔试
公共英语(PETS)
相关试题推荐
Thetankercouldnotsailintotheharborbecause______.Whathappenedtothetwoseamenintheend?
HowmuchdoesitcostfromLondontoEdinburghbycoach?
HowmuchdoesitcostfromLondontoEdinburghbycoach?
HowmuchdoesitcostfromLondontoEdinburghbycoach?
YouhavereadthefollowingadvertisementontheMorningPost,anEnglishnewspaper.TEMPORARYHOTELRECEPTIONISTPleasa
HowmanyflightsadayaretherefromLondontoSanFrancisco?
HowmanyflightsadayaretherefromLondontoSanFrancisco?
CustomsofficersataLondonairportyesterdayfound$500,000worthofdrugswhichwerebeingsmuggled(走私)intoBritaininboxes
CustomsofficersataLondonairportyesterdayfound$500,000worthofdrugswhichwerebeingsmuggled(走私)intoBritaininboxes
CustomsofficersataLondonairportyesterdayfound$500,000worthofdrugswhichwerebeingsmuggled(走私)intoBritaininboxes
随机试题
在国外结婚并定居在国外的华侨,如定居国法院以离婚诉讼须由国籍所属国法院管辖为由不予受理,当事人向人民法院提出离婚诉讼的,由
玻璃样变性不发生于
某建筑施工企业拟将抽取的地下水直接排入工地附近一河道内,则其必须取得()同意。
五岁的小南,已经上幼儿园了。妈妈对他百依百顺,爸爸对他则是简单粗暴。他虽然有很多玩具,但是看到别人有什么自己也要有,喜欢跟别人要东西。当跟同伴意见不一致时,经常与其他小朋友打架。老师曾极其严厉地批评过他,但他依旧我行我素。久而久之,小朋友们也都不爱和他玩了
情感包括理智感、_________和美感。
下列选项中,不属于我国宪法规定的公民基本权利的是()。(2012年单选25)
(2013年真题)下列选项中,符合我国《刑法》关于罚金规定的是
Atthebeginningofthecentury,medicalscientistsmadeasurprisingdiscovery:thatweare(1)_____notjustoffleshandbloo
下图是使用查询设计器完成的查询,与该查询等价的SQL语句是()。
Itwasverykind_____tohelpmewhenIwasinneed.
最新回复
(
0
)