What does the woman suggest they do?

M: The music is so beautiful that I’d like to dance. But I don’t know the steps.
W: It doesn’t matter. No one will be looking at us in this crowd.

M: Mary doesn’t want me to take the job. She says our child is too young. And the job requires much traveling.
W: You should talk to her again and see if you can find a way out. Think about the gains and losses before you make the decision.