There is no point in talking, however assertively, if no one is listening and, conversely, no point in listening if we are not t

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问题     There is no point in talking, however assertively, if no one is listening and, conversely, no point in listening if we are not truly attentive to others, if we are not analyzing the content of their communication and if we are not assessing how their tone of voice, manners, facial expressions and so on, add meaning to the words they use.
    Think about everyone’s basic rights. How can you show respect for others if you do not give them your full attention hearing them out rather than impatiently waiting for your turn to talk? Don’t you expect the same of others-to be listened to and taken seriously? Yet I’m sure you’ll agree that few people have good listening skills. It’s quite easy to become distracted by our own thoughts about what we’re going to do or say next.

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答案如果没有人倾听,无论您如何满怀信心地交谈都没有意义,反之亦然。如果我们根本没有真正关注对方,没有分析对方所传递信息的内容,没有评估对方的语调、风格、表情等因素怎样添加言辞含义,那么倾听也没有什么实际意义了。请考虑一下每个人拥有的基本权利。如果根本没有全神贯注地倾听对方讲话,而是极不耐心地等待时机发表自己的见解,您如何能够表明对他人的尊重呢?难道您就没有与他人同样的期望,希望他们认真地倾听自己讲话吗?我相信您一定也认为很少有人具备良好的倾听技能。由于一直考虑自己下一步的行动或者该说什么,我们很容易走神。

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