A、He learns problems should be solved with violence. B、He knows the pain is nature’s way of teaching children. C、He understands

What is the difference between loving discipline and child abuse? Some parents see a clear difference between hitting and child abuse. [20]The major view among the parents in a survey conducted by New York University is a little bit of pain is necessary to teach a child what is right and wrong. Pain is nature’s way of teaching us. Hitting is done out of love. Child abuse is done out of anger when the parent loses control.
    Parents need to control their children better. And corporal punishment is one way to do that. Some other parents feel that parent should never hit their children for any reason. They want their children to learn right and wrong but not out of fear of being hit. Hitting teaches children to fear their parents, not to respect them. [21]When a parent hits a child, what the child learns is that problems should be solved with violence.
    Parents are split about corporal punishment, and education experts also disagree about the issue. Some experts think that our child abuse laws sometimes go too far. Today many children don’t respect their parents. Children need strong loving discipline. Sometimes hitting is the best way to get a child’s attention to make sure the child listens to the parent. [22]However, most experts say that there are many harmful effects of hitting. Hitting can lead to more violent behavior in children. Studies show that children who are hit are more violent when they grow up. Hitting doesn’t work well. It’s not as effective as other forms of discipline. A child may start misbehaving for the moment but over time children who are hit actually misbehave more than children who are not hit. Research shows that if you want a peaceful family, don’t hit your kids. What are the long term effects of hitting as a child gets older and becomes an adult? Violent criminals were almost always hit when they were children. This corporal punishment teaches children to be violent when they are very young.
20. According to a survey, what is the parents’ major view on teaching their children?
21. What does a child learn when he is hit by his parents according to the lecturer?
22. What is the harmful effect of corporal punishment according to some experts?