A smile is a strong sign of a friendly and open attitude and a willingness to communicate. It is a positive, silent sign sent wi

admin2022-09-23  21

问题     A smile is a strong sign of a friendly and open attitude and a willingness to communicate. It is a positive, silent sign sent with the hope the other person will smile back. When you smile, you show you have noticed the person in a positive way. The result? That person will usually smile back.
    You might not realize a closed position is the cause of many conversational problems. A common closed position is sitting with your arms and legs crossed and your hand covering your mouth or chin. This is often called the "thinking pose". Ask yourself this question: Are you going to interrupt someone who appears to be deep in thought? This position gives off "stay away" signs and prevents your main "sign sender" (your mouth) from being seen by others looking for inviting conversational signs.
    The open body position is most effective when you place yourself within communicating distance of the other person—that is, within about five feet. Take care, however, not to enter someone’s "personal space" by getting too close, too soon.
    Leaning forward a little while a person is talking shows your interest and how you are listening to what the person is saying. By doing this, you are saying: I hear what you’re saying, and I’m interested in—keep talking!
    Often people will lean back with their hands over their mouth, chin, or behind their head in the "thinking" pose. This position gives off signs of judgment, doubt, and lack of interest from the listener. Since most people do not feel comfortable when they think they are being judged, this leaning-back position serves to prevent the speaker from continuing.
    In many cultures the most common form of first contact between two people is a handshake. Be the first to extend your hand in greeting. Couple this with a friendly "Hello", a nice smile, and your name and you have made the first step to open the lines of communication.
    Eye contact should be natural, not forced or overdone. Direct eye contact shows you are listening to the other person and that you want to know about her.
Leaning back with your hands behind your head in deep thought while a person is talking________.

选项 A、shows you are interested in and listening to what the speaker is saying
B、shows you want to keep some distance from the speaker
C、makes him think you are thinking about something else
D、makes him believe you are not interested in his talk

答案D

解析 推理题。根据题干可定位至文章第五段,该段前两句谈到了“Often people will lean back with their hands…or behind their head in the ‘thinking’ pose. This position gives off signs of judgment, doubt, and lack of interest from the listener. ”,即“人们常常把双手放在嘴上、下巴上或者脑后,身体后倾,作‘思考’状。这种姿势会给听众带来判断、怀疑和缺乏兴趣的信号。”A选项“显示出你对说话者所说的内容感兴趣,并且正在听”,B选项“显示出你想要和说话者保持距离”,C选项“使他认为你正在思考其他的事情”,D选项“使他相信你对他的谈话内容不感兴趣”,对比这四个选项,只有D选项符合文意,故D为正确答案。
转载请注明原文地址:https://kaotiyun.com/show/uVNd777K
0

最新回复(0)