Want happier, better-adjusted kids? Pay less attention to them, so【C1】______a family coach David Code. He says families centered

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问题     Want happier, better-adjusted kids? Pay less attention to them, so【C1】______a family coach David Code. He says families centered on children create anxious,【C2】______parents and demanding, spoiled kids.
    Mr. Code says spouses too often【C3】______from communicating with each other by staying late at work, turning on the TV, — or interacting with the kids【C4】______. What could be wrong with focusing on the children? Two things, he says: First, it becomes harder to respect and【C5】______the boundaries that shape a child’s【C6】______, so he simply haunts (纠缠) his parents【C7】______he gets his way. Future bosses and spouses may not be so patient with this behavior. Second, we put【C8】______pressure on our children to fulfill our【C9】______needs, which may lead to the child【C10】______out.
    Working to create a great marriage, you should not let the fight-or-flight response【C11】______your passion for each other, help kids to learn self-reliance and【C12】______, Mr. Code says. Instead of trying to create perfect childhoods for our kids by making them the【C13】______of our universe, we should concentrate on creating a good marriage. Then the rest falls into【C14】______. In my family, I feel like we’ve【C15】______a good balance with our daughter and son, who turn 7 and 4 next month. We make sure to find time for silly, creative play with the kids. But we’ve also【C16】______down a rule that the kids cannot【C17】______into our bedroom before 7 a. m. on weekdays and 7:30 at weekends, and we【C18】______that they’re now able to engage【C19】______enough self-directed play that we can spend some time just【C20】______with each other.
【C11】

选项 A、overwhelm
B、surrender
C、overtake
D、submit

答案A

解析 动词辨义题。本段科德指出了如何营造美满的婚姻,此处指出“不要让‘或战或逃’的应激反应压倒你们对彼此的热情”,所以overwhelm“压倒,淹没,受打击”符合文意。surrender“使投降,放弃,交出,听任”;overtake“赶上,超过,突然来袭”;submit“使服从,呈递”,均与文意不符,故排除。
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