Flash marriage is a term to describe a marriage between partners who get married after knowing each other for less than seven mo

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问题     Flash marriage is a term to describe a marriage between partners who get married after knowing each other for less than seven months. In recent years, more and more flash marriages are staged and reported across China. Some experts are denouncing such behavior as irresponsible and selfish. What is your opinion? Do you agree with flash marriage or not? Write an essay of about 400 words. You should supply an appropriate title for your essay.

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答案 On Flash Marriage It is for sure that the pace of life nowadays is increasingly fast, but there are certain things that should not be hurried through. Marriage is one of them. In my opinion, the so-called "flash marriage" contradicts with the nature of marriage itself and is irresponsible and potentially problematic. To begin with, the idea of "flash marriage" is incompatible with the essence of marriage. A mature marriage should be built on long-lasting love, trust and support, while "flash marriage" is built on light-headed passion, thoughtless impulse and mindless curiosity. As a saying goes, marriage is like a long race in which the most important ingredient for success is perseverance. One should not expect continuous excitement and romance in a marriage. Quite the contrary, he or she should learn to stand a stable and dull life and even tiredness bred from the bottom of heart. This might prove very difficult for the impulse-driven couples who dive into "flash marriage" without much consideration, and who regard marriage as a sprint in which you get all the excitement in the world once you rush through the finishing line. Marriage is not simply the "result" of a relationship; it is a starting point for a much longer journey, loaded with more responsibilities. Unfortunately, many couples who experience "flash marriage" seem ignorant of this obvious fact. Secondly, "flash marriage" is an irresponsible and potentially problematic act. Take the construction of a house for example. We do not just simply get the materials and start building. Instead, we have to make a detailed and thorough plan first. We should assess the surrounding environment, check the wiring and plumbing, and before we actually build the house we must make sure that we have a solid foundation and durable materials. The same is true with marriage. Before two people decide that they want to be with each other "till death do them apart", there are things that have to be worked out. Are they absolutely committed? Would they really get along? What would the life be like after marriage? If these questions are not made clear, the marriage might become vulnerable. And an unhappy marriage usually affects family members as well as friends of the couple involved. To hastily enter a lightening marriage is apparently irresponsible and may cause lots of problems for the flash-married couple. All in all, "flash marriage" is an irresponsible and problematic behavior which runs counter to the essence of marriage and should therefore be discouraged.

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