You’ve probably had the experience of having someone fall in love with you when you didn’t return the feeling. In such a case it

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问题     You’ve probably had the experience of having someone fall in love with you when you didn’t return the feeling. In such a case it’s hard to know what to do. You want to discourage your admirer. Yet, you don’t want to be so obvious in your efforts that you make an enemy of him.
    A friend of mine had this problem and handled it in the most graceful way I’ve ever seen. Instead of telling the young man that she found it tiresome to have him around so much, she devoted herself to introducing the young man to every girl she knew. Whenever she had a date with him, she arranged for them to drop in one of her girl friends. A few weeks was all it took for him to click (一见如故) with one of these girls, and then everyone was happy. The new girl and the young man got along just fine and both of them were grateful to my friend, which was just what she wanted him to be.
Of course this solution may not work for you. You may have your own way of dealing with the problem. But whatever you decide to do, keep one thing in mind-- the boy in question has feelings as sensitive as your own. So try to find a way of discouraging him without hurting him.
The author urges us to be

选项 A、friendly to everybody
B、considerate to others
C、aware of man’s weakness
D、responsive to other’s demands

答案B

解析 本题为细节题。在文章最后作者给出忠告“So try to find a way of discouraging him without hurting him”表示被追求者在拒绝他人时应 考虑到对方的细腻情感不能轻易伤害。作者劝告大家考虑问题要周到, 要学会体谅对方。[A]选项“对每个人友好”,并不表示爱对方;[C]选 项“了解男人的弱点”不是本文探讨的主题;[D]选项“回应他人的要 求”并不表示不爱对方也应有回应,因此[B]选项“体谅他人”为正确 答案。
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