首页
外语
计算机
考研
公务员
职业资格
财经
工程
司法
医学
专升本
自考
实用职业技能
登录
外语
According to psychology professor Carol Dweck of Stanford University, "Praising children for being smart can backfire." If this
According to psychology professor Carol Dweck of Stanford University, "Praising children for being smart can backfire." If this
admin
2013-09-04
73
问题
According to psychology professor Carol Dweck of Stanford University, "Praising children for being smart can
backfire
." If this doesn’t get the attention of Millennium parents, I’m not sure what will.
It is my observation that so many parents today believe that if their child appears to be the least bit "advanced" for his age, he’s destined to be the next Albert Einstein, Tiger Woods, or Bill Gates. It’s human nature for mom and dad to show much admiration for their child and dish out praise for accomplishments achieved. The problem is, according to this study, parents may not be doing the best thing by praising their child for his intelligence.
Dweck’s research involved junior high students in New York and concluded that "classroom performance improved when her study subjects believed the brain is like a muscle that can grow." Students who "focused on the learning process(effort, concentration or strategies used)asked for feedback and did better in all subjects." Feedback such as, "You did well because you worked so hard" or "You used so many descriptive words to make this story interesting" can encourage children to try new things, as they are being rewarded for their effort. When the "time and effort" strategy is being positively reinforced, the child will probably use the same strategy next time they are learning something. Over time new strategies can be introduced, so the child’s repertoire of strategies is broadened.
Dweck goes on to say that "they(students who improved)performed better because their success was being measured by effort, not by test scores or grades." Parents should praise effort, not just results. Children who received praise about their innate abilities(talents or strengths)had less chance of trying new things and became anxious and under-performed as things became more difficult. That is one of the greatest dangers to continually praising children for whatever they do in order to falsely raise a child’s self-esteem.
What are mom and dad to do? Offer genuine praise and encouragement for efforts and successes, but balance this with setting appropriate expectations and following up with consequences when the child falls short due to laziness. Don’t make excuses. Your child will better face the challenges life has to offer in the future when you as a parent recognize the efforts he is making today.
Which of the following can be considered proper feedback?
选项
A、You did really well on this spelling test, you must have spent hours practising your words.
B、Oh, honey, you’re so smart—that failing grade won’t matter anyway.
C、This is a wonderful painting. What a great artist you are!
D、You did really well on this spelling test. You are very clever.
答案
A
解析
从第三段第三句的例子中可发现正确的反馈形式的特点。不论是老师还是家长,都应突出学生投人的时间和付出的努力,而不是夸奖孩子有多聪明。选项A符合这一特点。
转载请注明原文地址:https://kaotiyun.com/show/eBHO777K
0
研究生英语学位课统考(GET)
相关试题推荐
Untillastspring,NiaParkerandtheotherkidsinherneighborhoodcommutedtoschoolonBus59.Butasfuelpricesrose,the
Specializationcanbeseenasaresponsetotheproblemofanincreasingaccumulationofscientificknowledge.Bysplittingupt
Allindividualsarerequiredto______tothelawsmadebytheirgovernments.
Adolescentsaretakinglongertobecomefullyproductivemembersofsociety,ReedLarson,professorofhumandevelopment,Univer
Americansnolongerexpectpublicfigures,whetherinspeechorinwriting,tocommandtheEnglishlanguagewithskillandgift.
Ifambitionistobewellregarded,therewardsofambitionwealth,distinction,controloverone’sdestinymustbedeemedworth
Ifambitionistobewellregarded,therewardsofambitionwealth,distinction,controloverone’sdestinymustbedeemedworth
______thattheymayeventuallyreducetheamountoflabourneededonconstructionsitesby90percent.
金银玉器是一个总称,通指对金、银等金属材质及玉石进行锻炼、雕琢加工而成的佩戴装饰品或观赏工艺品。我国金银器的制造和使用已有三千多年的历史。在商代青铜文化闻名于世的同时,就已经出现了金器。从传世文物上来看,金银器品种繁多,应用广泛。小到金银首饰,大
AstudybyDr.DavidLewisfromTheUniversityofSussex,whocoinedtheterm"roadrage,"foundthatmotoristsfaceahiddenme
随机试题
甲与妻子乙以及儿子丙一家3口出门旅游。途中不幸飞机失事,3人身亡。经清理,夫妻俩共有财产50万元,另外有一套登记为乙所有的住房。这套住房是乙7年前尚未结婚时继承父母的遗产,现在乙的弟弟提出要回房子的要求,甲的父母不同意,双方为此发生纠纷。问:如何确认
控制大体积混凝土水化热的方法有( )。
建设方案总体设计过程中,主要厂房和生产装置建设方案涉及的工作内容和要求不包括()。
在沉箱重力式码头施工中,沉箱安放就位填充完毕后,后方抛石棱体及倒滤层应从墙后开始抛填,是为了()。
班杜拉的社会学习理论将强化分为_________、_________和自我强化。
轮船:海洋
EP地址块202.192.33:160/28的子网掩码可写为
NewfiguresfromFrance,GermanyandItaly--thethreebiggesteconomiesinthe12-countryEurozone-suggestthecontinent’sec
【B1】【B17】
ThefamilyinBritainischanging.TheoncetypicalBritishfamilyheadedbytwoparentshas(36)______substantialchangesduri
最新回复
(
0
)