You’ve probably had the experience of having someone fall in love with you when you didn’t return the feeling. In such a case it

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问题     You’ve probably had the experience of having someone fall in love with you when you didn’t return the feeling. In such a case it’s hard to know what to do. You want to discourage your admirer. Yet, you don’t want to be so obvious in your efforts that you make an enemy of him.
    A friend of mine had this problem and handled it in the most graceful way I’ve ever seen. Instead of telling the young man that she found it tiresome to have him around so much, she devoted herself to introducing the young man to every girl she knew. Whenever she had a date with him, she arranged for them to drop in one of her girl friends. A few weeks was all it took for him to click (一见如故) with one of these girls, and then everyone was happy. The new girl and the young man got along just fine and both of them were grateful to my friend, which was just what she wanted him to be.
Of course this solution may not work for you. You may have your own way of dealing with the problem. But whatever you decide to do, keep one thing in mind-- the boy in question has feelings as sensitive as your own. So try to find a way of discouraging him without hurting him.
The character of the author’s friend can best be described as

选项 A、sympathetic
B、tactful
C、patient
D、cunning

答案B

解析 本题为推理题。作者朋友的性格可以从她对待追求者的方式上看出,她 想方设法为年轻人寻找适合的伴侣而不是粗暴地拒绝他,表现出女友的 善良。[A]选项“有同情心”;[C]选项“耐心”;[D]选项“狡猾”都不 能正确描述作者女友的性格:[B]选项“机智的,得体的”,符合原文 中第二段对女友处理方法的评论“…in the most graceful way I’ve ever seen”,说明女友机智,办事讲究策略而不伤害他人。
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