Family is, if anything, the link between generations, the focal point of social reproduction, and cultural transmission. The who

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问题 Family is, if anything, the link between generations, the focal point of social reproduction, and cultural transmission. The whole point of marriage is that it imposes clear obligations, not just the right to pursue your own happiness. And the main obligation is to provide both emotional and practical nurture for children. The glow of burning passion may well have faded, your love for your spouse may not be as exciting or satisfying as it once was, but going off in search of another love will not help your children. The Love Family is either too amorphous for children — your friends have no obligation to provide for them, or it’s too unstable, with adults moving on if the relationship no longer answers their search for perfect happiness. I would venture to suggest that love is not enough to sustain an ongoing marital relationship. The Love Family, in the end, doesn’t have to care. And unfettered freedom will become our chain, leaving us with no recourse but lonely isolation.

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答案可以说,家庭是联系两代人的纽带,是养育孩子和传递文化的中心。婚姻的全部意义就在于它予以夫妻双方清晰的责任义务,而不仅仅是追求个人幸福的权利。而主要的责任就是给孩子感情上和实际上的关爱。激情的光焰可能早己减退,对妻子或丈夫的爱也许不及当初那般令人兴奋、那般美满,但转而寻求新的爱情不会对孩子有好处。“情爱家庭”对孩子来说,要么太随意——新的伴侣对你的孩子没有抚养责任,要么太不稳定,成年人一旦感到他们的关系无法满足自己对完美幸福的追求,就会转而他求。我想冒昧地说,要维系婚姻关系,仅有爱是不够的。说到底,“情爱家庭”不用关爱他人。彻底的自由最终会成为我们的锁链,使我们别无选择,只能生活在孤独中。

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