What does the speaker want to tell his listeners?

Do you know how to make compliments on appearance? I’m going to tell you something about it. There are some aspects of a person’s appearance that are fine to compliment and there are others that should be avoided. The more close we are with a person, the more personal our compliments can be. Men and women compliment each other in friendship, dating, or marital relationships, and this is quite normal—and even expected. A man may compliment a woman on her eyes, hair, smile, figure, or general appearance. However, it would not be in good taste to compliment a woman on more personal parts of her body—unless the two people were very close with each other. Women compliment men, too, and generally on some of the same aspects of their appearance—a nice haircut, a warm smile, a good tan—but, again, very personal parts of the body should not be the subject of compliments.