A、Pointing out each other’s defect when he or she makes mistake. B、Loving and respecting each other. C、Only wanting to harvest a

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问题  
W: Hi, Jerry, I find it difficult to solve disputes between lovers.
M: It’s easy: the truth of love is that one must master the art of losing.
W: Isn’t "win-win" solution useful in love or marriage?
M: I don’t think so, success in marriage resides more in "lose-lose" solutions.
W: I cannot imagine the "lose-lose" solutions will be helpful.
M: Yes, take mine as an example, one day our tastes of picking new living-room wallpaper were at odds.
W: Who gave up to another?
M: Both. We changed our way. There are over two hundred samples, we should spend our energy finding one that suits us both, instead of quarreling over the ones we don’t like.
W: That’s the way. Eventually you both can be satisfied.
M: The "wallpaper book" became our symbol for settling the issues in marriage.
W: But I run the relationship with a mess. We argue over how to spend money and who is going to be in control.
M: Yes, that’s true. We also had experienced that, when I was young my need to control arose out of fear, a lack of trust, insecurity.
W: But giving up control is often confused with weakness.
M: The winner in a domestic argument is never really the winner.
W: What is it we want most from a marriage? To love and be loved. To be happy and secure.
M: If you want to feel loved and respected, give up control. And if you want to win arguments at home, learn to lose them. A love relation is the garden in which we plant, cultivate and harvest.
Questions 8 to 11 are based on the conversation you have just heard.
8. What’s the main topic of this conversation?
9. How did the man solve the dispute with his wife?
10. Why do people want to control in marriage according to the man?
11. How to create a harmonious marriage according to the conversation?

选项 A、Pointing out each other’s defect when he or she makes mistake.
B、Loving and respecting each other.
C、Only wanting to harvest at any time.
D、Giving up love after they quarrel.

答案B

解析 综合理解题。题目是问根据对话,怎样创造一种和谐的婚姻。对话开始说到,“双输”策略在经营成功的婚姻中非常有用,接着男士以自己为例说明如何处理夫妻之间的争端,对话最后指出,如果想在婚姻中获得爱与被爱,获得尊重,就要放弃控制对方。由此可见,只有彼此爱护和尊重才能创造和谐的婚姻。故选B。
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