We all know that the most powerful force in our lives is love. In addition to providing us with soul-warming companionship, the

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问题     We all know that the most powerful force in our lives is love. In addition to providing us with soul-warming companionship, the emotion of love is truly inspiring.
    Of course, the facts of our lives tell a somewhat sad story. We have a very hard time making love last. The divorce rate in the U. S. is still around 50 percent. That figure doesn’t even cover the many couples that live together without marriage and whose unions are even more likely to dissolve.
    Relationships fail because people have the misconception about what to expect in marriage. The fantasy is that everything will be wonderful as long as you find the perfect person—your missing half. But marriage is a team sport. It’s one team with two people, with two different minds. The difficulty is that these two people disagree all the time. They need to know nondestructive ways of expressing differences and must also be prepared for the inevitable disappointments that come from living with another person.

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答案 众所周知,爱是人们生活中最强大的力量。除了给我们提供温暖灵魂的伴侣之外,爱的情感,着实鼓舞人心。 当然,生活呈现的事实多少令人悲伤。我们难以让爱情持久。美国的离婚率仍徘徊在50%左右,这一数字甚至还不包括许多没有合法婚姻关系的同居者,这些人的结合更容易解体。 之所以关系破裂,是由于人们对婚姻的期待抱持错误观念。有一种幻想认为,只要能找到完美的另一半,一切将美妙无比。但婚姻是一项团体运动,这个团队由想法各异的两人组成。难处在于,这二人常常意见相左。他们需要懂得使用非破坏性的方式来表达不同意见,同时要对和另一个人生活带来的不可避免的失望有所准备。

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