The word "winner" and "loser" have many meanings. When we refer to a person as a winner, we do not mean one who makes someone el

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问题 The word "winner" and "loser" have many meanings. When we refer to a person as a winner, we do not mean one who makes someone else lose. To us, a winner is one who responds authentically by being credible, trustworthy, responsive, and genuine, both as an individual and as a member of a society.
Winners do not dedicate their lives to a concept of what they imagine they should be; rather, they are themselves and as such do not use their energy putting on a performance, maintaining pretence, and manipulating others. They are aware that there is a difference between loving and acting loving, between being stupid and acting stupid, between being knowledgeable and acting knowledgeable. Winners do not need to hide behind a mask.
Winners are not afraid to do their own thinking and use their own knowledge. They can separate facts from opinions and don’t pretend to have all the answers. They listen to others, evaluate what they say, but come to their own conclusions. Although winners can admire and respect other people, they are not totally defined, demolished, bound, or awed by them.
Winners do not play "helpless", nor do they play the blaming game. Instead, they assume responsibility for their own lives.

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答案 “成功者”与“失败者”有诸多含义。若说一个人是成功者,并不是说他踩在失败者的肩膀之上。对我们而言,成功者都是实实在在地值得信赖,可以依靠,有求必应,不管是对个人还是社会都是真心诚意的。 成功者并不把自己的人生限定于某个设想的概念,而是保持真我本色,他们从不耗费精力矫言伪行,虚情假意,或是操控他人。他们知道什么是真爱什么是假爱,什么是愚不可及什么是大智若愚,什么是博学强识什么是附庸风雅。成功者从不需要戴着面具独舞。 成功者勇于坚持自己的所思所学。他们能从人云亦云中找出事实,而不是假装自己是“万事通”。他们注意聆听,权衡利弊,但得出自己的结论。成功者赞赏并尊重他人,但他们并不会为他人所局限、所击败、所禁锢,也不会对其望而生畏。 成功者并不会佯装“无助求援”,也不会责备他人。反之,他们会承担起自己人生的责任。

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