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Love is probably the best antidepressant there is because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved. Most
Love is probably the best antidepressant there is because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved. Most
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2011-02-25
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Love is probably the best antidepressant there is because one of the most common sources of depression is feeling unloved. Most depressed people don’t love themselves and they do not feel loved by others. They also are very self-focused, making them less attractive to others and depriving them of opportunities to learn the skills of love. There is a mythology in our culture that love just happens. As a result, the depressed often sit around passively waiting for someone to love them. But love doesn’t work that way. To get love and keep love you have to go out and be active and learn a variety of specific skills.
Most of us get our ideas of love from popular culture. We come to believe that love is something that sweeps us off our feet. But the pop-culture ideal of love consists of unrealistic images created for entertainment, which is one reason so many of us are set up to be depressed. It’s part of our national vulnerability, like eating junk food, constantly stimulated by images of instant gratification. We think it is love when it’s simply distraction and infatuation. One consequence is that when we hit real love we become upset and disappointed because there are many things that do not fit the cultural ideal.
Limerance is the psychological state of deep infatuation. It feels good but rarely lasts. Limerance is that first stage of mad attraction whereby all the hormones are flowing and things feel so right. Limerance lasts, on average, six months. It can progress to love. Love mostly starts out as limerance, but limerance doesn’t always evolve into love.
Love is a learned skill, not something that comes from hormones or emotion particularly. Erich Fromm called it "an act of will. " If you don’t learn the skills of love you virtually guarantee that you will be depressed, not only because you will not be connected enough, but because you will have many failure experiences.
There are always core differences between two people, no matter how good or close you are, and if the relationship is going right those differences surface. The issue then is to identify the differences and negotiate them so that they don’t distance you or kill the relationship. You do that by understanding where the other person is coming from, who that person is, and by being able to represent yourself. When the differences are known you must be able to negotiate and compromise on them until you find a common ground that works for both.
What is the suggestion given by the author in this passage about the core differences between two people?
选项
A、To find out the differences and talk about them.
B、To avoid talking about the differences.
C、To change differences into similarities.
D、To pretend that differences do not exist.
答案
A
解析
细节题;题目中的“core differences between two people”可以帮助我们定位原文信息到最后一段。而在原文中我们可以找到“The issue then is to identify the differences and negotiate them so that they don’t distance you or kill the relationship”的关键信息,对比4个选 项,A选项的“find out”和这里的“identify”,以及A选项中的“talk about”和原文的“negoti-ate”都属于同义表达,所以A选项是正确答案。
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考研英语一
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