首页
外语
计算机
考研
公务员
职业资格
财经
工程
司法
医学
专升本
自考
实用职业技能
登录
外语
Of all the extraordinary events in the life of John Paul II, few can compare with the 21 minutes he spent in a white-walled ce
Of all the extraordinary events in the life of John Paul II, few can compare with the 21 minutes he spent in a white-walled ce
admin
2021-10-13
33
问题
Of all the extraordinary events in the life of John Paul II, few can compare with the 21 minutes he spent in a white-walled cell in Rome’s Rebibia prison. Just after Christmas, 1983, the pope visited Mehmet Ali Agca, the man who 30 months earlier had shot him in St. Peter’s Square. He presented Agca with a silver rosary, and something else as well: his forgiveness.
It requires a Christ-like forbearance to pardon a would-be assassin, of course. But how many of us are ready to forgive an unfaithful lover, a scheming colleague or even the jerk who cut into the line at Krispy Kreme? Persistent unforgiveness is part of human nature, but it appears to work to the detriment not just of our spiritual well-being but our physical health as well. The subject is one of the hottest field of research in clinical psychology today, with more than 1,200 published studies, up from just 58 as recently as 1997. It even has its own foundation—A Campaign for Forgiveness Research—which sponsored a conference last year with papers on topics like "Exploring Gender Differences in Forgiveness." (The largest number of papers dealt with forgiveness in marital and romantic relationships, which seem to generate an inordinate amount of interpersonal resentment.) Dr. Dean Ornish, America’s all-purpose lifestyle guru, regards forgiveness as the tofu of the soul, a healthful alternative to the red meat of anger and vengeance. "In a way," Ornish says, "the most selfish thing you can do for yourself is to forgive other people."
Research suggests that forgiveness works in at least two ways. One is by reducing the stress of the state of unforgiveness, a potent mixture of bitterness, anger, hostility, hatred, resentment and fear (of being hurt or humiliated again). These have specific physiologic consequences—such as increased blood pressure and hormonal changes—linked to cardiovascular disease, immune suppression and, possibly, impaired neurological function and memory. One study examined 20 individuals in happy relationships, matched with 20 in troubled relationships. The latter had higher baseline levels of Cortisol, a hormone associated with impaired immune function— which shot up even further when they were asked to think about their relationships. "It happens down the line, but every time you feel unforgiveness, you are more likely to develop a health problem," says Everett Worthington, executive director of A Campaign for Forgiveness Research.
The other benefit of forgiveness is more subtle; it relates research showing that people with strong social networks—of friends, neighbors and family—tend to be healthier than loners. Someone who nurses grudges and keeps track of every slight is obviously going to shed some relationships over the course of a lifetime. Forgiveness, says Charlotte van Oyen Witvliet, a researcher at Hope College in Holland, Mich., should be incorporated into one’s personality, a way of life, not merely a response to specific insults.
In fact, forgiveness turns out to be a surprisingly complex process, according to many researchers. Worthington distinguishes what he calls "decisional forgiveness"—a commitment to reconciling with the perpetrator—from the more significant "emotional forgiveness," an internal state of acceptance. Forgiveness does not require us to forgo justice, or to make up to people we have every right to despise. Anger has its place in the panoply of human emotions, but it shouldn’t become a way of life. "When I talk about forgiveness, I mean letting go, not excusing the other person or reconciling with them or condoning the behavior," says Ornish. "Just letting go of your own suffering."
"It’s a process, not a moment," says Dr. Edward M. Hallowell, a Harvard psychiatrist and the author of "Dare to Forgive." Forgiveness, he emphasizes, has to be cultivated; it goes against a natural human tendency to seek revenge and the redress of injustice. For that reason, he recommends doing it with help—of friends, a therapist or through prayer. It was from his faith that John Paul drew the strength to forgive Mehmet Agca setting (as he no doubt intended) an example for the rest of us. The message is the same whether it’s couched in the language of Christian charity, clinical psychology or the wisdom of Confucius, as quoted by Hallowell: "If you devote your life to seeking revenge, first dig two graves."
According to the passage, forgiveness means________.
选项
A、giving up justice
B、excusing the other person
C、stopping thinking of anger
D、reconciling with the other person
答案
C
解析
本题考查对第五段的理解。原文说“When I talk about forgiveness,I mean letting go,not excusing the other person or reconciling with them or condoning the behavior, ”says Ornish.“Just letting go of your own suffering.”,所以选项C符合题意,为正确答案。
转载请注明原文地址:https://kaotiyun.com/show/gcIK777K
0
专业英语八级
相关试题推荐
A、Colorofthecover.B、Accompanyingtapes.C、Titleandauthor.D、Unimportantdetails.C男士让Sally谈谈有什么书可以推荐给关注英语发音的学生。Sally提到一本书,
PASSAGETHREEWhyisthetasteoftheEnglishinthecultivationoflandandinlandscapegardeningunrivaled?
Accordingtoarecentsurvey,74%ofAmericanadultsonlineusesocialnetworkingsitessuchasFacebook,InstagramandTwitter.
PASSAGETWOWhatdoestheword"lineage"inthelastparagraphmean?
A、Therearelesscollegegraduatesthisyear.B、Thegovernmentisfundingunemploymentscheme.C、Employersareinclinedtohire
...Finally,oneoftheprimarypurposesofartisto【T1】______athand.Subjectmatterdoesnotchangeallthatmuchovertime.
...Finally,oneoftheprimarypurposesofartisto【T1】______athand.Subjectmatterdoesnotchangeallthatmuchovertime.
(1)Inadecadeworkingasananny,AndreiaSoaresfinallyclambereduptheladderintoBrazil’smiddleclass.(2)Withthemo
PASSAGEONEHowcantheauthor’sattitudetowardstheUK’seconomicmodelbedescribed?
(1)Humansaredamagingtheplanetatanunprecedentedrateandraisingrisksofabruptcollapsesinnaturematcouldspurdiseas
随机试题
空气的干、湿球温度及露点温度在任何情况下都应该是不相等的。()
高适《燕歌行》:少妇城南欲断肠,__________。
脑卒中最强的单一危险因素是
某冷库冷藏间室内净高为4.5m,设计温度为5℃,冷藏间内设有自动喷水灭火系统,下列关于该冷藏间自动喷水灭火系统的设计方案中,正确的是()。
(1)2012年3月,甲公词到开户银行存入现金1000元。(2)2012年3月,甲公司向D证券公司划出投资款1000万元,并以银行存款支付。(3)2012年4月甲公司委托D证券公司购买100万股票,每股8元,并支付相关费用1.8万元,划为交易性金融资产
保税区与境外之间进出的货物,海关实行()的申报方式。
审计质量控制准则不能规范注册会计师执行审计业务,出具审计报告。( )事务所业务范围的大小、业务助理人员素质的高低以及审计的成本会影响事务所全面质量控制政策和程序的制定。( )
夏天午后的课堂上,有学生昏昏欲睡了。下列处理方式,最恰当的一项是()。
索引是数据库中重要的数据结构。关于索引现有下列说法:Ⅰ.建立索引的目的是提高查询的效率Ⅱ.在插入、删除和更新操作中,索引可能会增加系统开销Ⅲ.当数据库表更新大量数据后一般需要重建对应的B树索引Ⅳ.多属性索引中,索引属
Englishisanimportantforeignlanguagetomasterbecauseitprovidesready______toworldscholarshipandworldtrade.
最新回复
(
0
)