首页
外语
计算机
考研
公务员
职业资格
财经
工程
司法
医学
专升本
自考
实用职业技能
登录
外语
Bring Up the Kid’s Happy Feeling It’s no surprise that Jennifer Senior’s insightful, provocative magazine cover story, "I Lo
Bring Up the Kid’s Happy Feeling It’s no surprise that Jennifer Senior’s insightful, provocative magazine cover story, "I Lo
admin
2013-01-10
53
问题
Bring Up the Kid’s Happy Feeling
It’s no surprise that Jennifer Senior’s insightful, provocative magazine cover story, "I Love My Children, I Hate My Life" is arousing much chatter—nothing gets people talking like the suggestion that child rearing is anything less than a completely fulfilling, life-enriching experience. Rather than concluding that children make parents either happy or miserable, Senior suggests we need to redefine happiness: instead of thinking of it as something that can be measured by moment-to-moment joy, we should consider being happy as a past-tense condition. Even though the day-to-day experience of raising kids can be soul-crushingly hard, Senior writes that "the very things that in the moment dampen our moods can later be sources of intense gratification and delight."
The magazine cover showing an attractive mother holding a cute baby is hardly the only Madonna-and-child image on newsstands this week. There are also stories about newly adoptive—and newly single—mom Sandra Bullock, as well as the usual "Jennifer Aniston is pregnant" news. Practically every week features at least one celebrity mom, or mom-to-be, smiling on the newsstands.
In a society that so persistently celebrates procreation, is it any wonder that admitting you regret having children is equivalent to admitting you support kitten-killing? It doesn’t seem quite fair, then, to compare the regrets of parents to the regrets of the chidless. Unhappy parents rarely are provoked to wonder if they shouldn’t have had kids, but unhappy childless folks are bothered with the message that children are the single most important thing in the world: obviously their misery must be a direct result of the gaping baby-size holes in their lives.
Of course, the image of parenthood that celebrity magazines like US Weekly and People present is hugely unrealistic, especially when the parents are single mothers like Bullock. According to several studies concluding that parents are less happy than childless couples, single parents are the least happy of all. No shock there, considering how much work it is to raise a kid without a partner to lean on; yet to hear Sandra and Britney tell it, raising a kid on their "own" (read: with round-the-clock help) is a piece of cake.
It’s hard to imagine that many people are dumb enough to want children just because Reese and Angelina make it look so glamorous : most adults understand that a baby is not a haircut. But it’s interesting to wonder if the images we see every week of stress-free, happiness-enhancing parenthood aren’t in some small, subconscious way contributing to our own dissatisfactions with the actual experiene, in the same way that a small part of us hoped getting "the Rachel" might make us look just a little bit like Jennifer Aniston.
Jennifer Senior suggests in her article that raising a child can bring______.
选项
A、temporary delight
B、enjoyment in progress
C、happiness in retrospect
D、lasting reward
答案
C
解析
事实细节题。根据题干中的Jennifer Senior和her article定位至首段末句。该句提到,老詹妮弗写道:“那些在当时打击我们情绪的东西日后成为强烈的满足感和喜悦感的来源。”也就是说当时的痛苦日后成为强烈的满足感和喜悦感的来源,即养育孩子能够带给父母的是“回想起来的幸福”,故[C]为答案。作者开篇提到老詹妮弗的杂志封面中,引出养育孩子这一话题。指出了老詹妮弗认为,应对幸福重新定义,她认为幸福是过去时。末句则指出那些在当时打击我们情绪的东西日后成为强烈的满足感和喜悦感的来源。文中没有提到[A]“暂时的快乐”和[D]“持久的回报”,故排除。首段第二句后半句指出,不要认为幸福是可以用时时刻刻的欢乐加以衡量的东西,显然[B]“当时的乐趣”与老詹妮弗观点相反,故排除。
转载请注明原文地址:https://kaotiyun.com/show/sJhK777K
0
专业英语四级
相关试题推荐
WiththerapidspreadoftheInternetevery-whereintheworld,the【C1】______numberofusers,oneofthemostexcitingdevelo
ItisobviouslynecessarythatboththePresidentandhisadvisers______downtoearth.
Industryshouldgetridofhalfitsbosses,saysbehavioralpsychologistAlfredJ.Marrow."Adultsarequitecapableofhandling
Industryshouldgetridofhalfitsbosses,saysbehavioralpsychologistAlfredJ.Marrow."Adultsarequitecapableofhandling
Notcontentwithitsdoubtfulclaimtoproducecheapfoodforourownpopulation,thefactor,farmingindustryalsoarguesthat"
TheNationalTrustinBritain,togetherwithsimilarvoluntaryorganizations,playsanincreasinglyimportantpartinthepreser
Aestheticthoughtofadistinctivelymodernbentemergedduringthe18thcentury.Thewesternphilosophersofthistimedevoted
InAmerica,peoplearefacedwithmoreandmoredecisionseveryday,【C1】______it’spickingoneofthirty-oneicecream【C2】______
Accordingtothepassage,mothersin______spendmoretimelookingafterchildren.
Onlinesocialnetworksaremassivelyinfluential,yetweunderstandverylittleabouttheimpacttheyhaveonourbrains.Recent
随机试题
资本家获得剩余价值的多少是由剩余价值率的高低决定的。
对现代医学影像发展趋势的论述,错误的是
陈某于2004年4月与某房地产公司签订了为期3年的劳动合同,约定试用期为6个月。2004年7月,陈某出国留学的签证得到批准,遂想解除与某房地产公司的劳动合同。陈某应采取下列哪种做法?()
中发[1997]11号文件规定,农村居民每户只能有一处不超过标准的宅基地,多出的宅基地,要()。
下列关于社会评价作用的说法,错误的是()。
案例四:财产保险是保险人对财产或其有关利益,在发生保险责任范围内的灾害事故所遭受的经济损失给予补偿的保险。财产保险中的财产,指一切物质财富,包括一切动产、不动产、固定的或在流动中的财产,以及在制造的或制成的,因而财产保险的范围很广泛,除了人身保险以外的各种
结构化金融衍生产品按收益保障性分类,可分为()
一般来说,各国进行外汇管理的目的包括()。
一、注意事项本题由给定资料与作答要求两部分构成。二、给定资料1.在中国有这样一个群体:他们的父母为了生计外出打工,用勤劳和智慧获取家庭收入,为经济发展和社会稳定作出了贡献,但他们的子女却留在了农村家里,与父母相伴的时间微乎其微,包括内地城市
甲将其汽车出借给乙,该汽车的照明系统存在故障,并且甲知道该故障。此后,乙在白天由于酒后驾车发生交通事故,造成丙的左腿骨折。对此,下列说法正确的有()。
最新回复
(
0
)