Unless you are one of those fortunate few who met their soul-mate in grade school, married right out of high school, and spent t

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问题    Unless you are one of those fortunate few who met their soul-mate in grade school, married right out of high school, and spent the next 60 years in wedded bliss you are going to go through what millions before you have gone through, and what millions after you will go through — a broken heart.
   【R6】______While some simply shake the dust off and get right back into the dating game, others are left so devastated that they never date again, spending the rest of their life in bitter solitude. Why the difference?
   For most of us who experience a breakup a normal grieving period will occur; Denial and Isolation, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and finally Acceptance.【R7】______Others remain either bitter or so afraid of getting hurt that they never date again, closing off their hearts to just about everyone. 【R8】______
   Why the variation? Well, a lot of it has to do with our loving style. 【R9】______While one person may love another in a supportive and healthy way, another person may cling onto their mate simply as a way to fix what they imagine to be wrong with themselves. They use their partner as a method of dealing with their own imagined inadequacies or feelings of unworthiness — feeling good only as long as they are in the relationship. Others simply like the "high" of being in love. This high becomes addictive to them and they hop from one relationship instantly into another — often times head-over-heels in love by the second date. Still others simply surrender themselves into their relationships quickly losing themselves and their own sense of individuality, becoming "the relationship." 【R10】______
   A healthy view of oneself, one’s partner, and one’s relationship is essential to withstanding the ups, and downs, in our eternal search for that special someone to share our lives with.
   A. There are many loving styles ranging from the very healthy, to the desperately needy.
   B. The pain experienced during a breakup is as individual as the millions of people who go through it.
   C. But for some, the grief and devastation are so severe that they end up hospitalized, and even suicidal.
   D. They recklessly seek "love" much as an addict will seek a "fix," and are often so in need of being in love that they imagine their partners to have all the qualities they are looking for in a mate — whether their partners actually possess these qualities or not.
   E. Should the relationship end, then shall they, too.
   F. Yet, some don’t even grieve at all, subconsciously choosing to simply transfer their feelings for one person immediately onto that of another person in what is called a rebound relationship.
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答案B

解析 文章的开始讲到高中毕业后直接结婚很可能会像数百万人一样遭遇心碎的结局。选项B的句子进一步说明了分手带来的痛苦因人而异,这自然地引出了下一句的内容:有些人可以摆脱痛苦,寻找新的伴侣,而有些人却悲苦一生、孤独一生。另外,本题的答题关键是区别选项B和C。
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