We tend to think that friends and family members are our biggest sources of connection, laughter and warmth.While that may well

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问题         We tend to think that friends and family members are our biggest sources of connection, laughter and warmth.While that may well be true, researchers have also recently found that interacting with strangers actually brings a boost in mood and feelings of belonging that we didn’t expect.
        In one series of studies, researchers instructed Chicago-area commuters using public transportation to strike up a conversation with someone near them.On average, participants who followed the instruction felt better than those who had been told to stand or sit in silence.The researchers also argued that when we shy away from casual interactions with strangers, it is often due to a misplaced anxiety that they might not want to talk to us.Much of the time, however, this belief is false.As it turns out, many people are actually perfectly willing to talk—and may even be flattered to receive your attention.

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答案  我们通常认为朋友和家庭成员是我们交流、欢笑和温暖的最大源泉。尽管很有可能确实是这样,但是最近研究人员也发现与陌生人交流实际上可以改善我们的情绪,并且给我们带来一种出人意料的归属感。   在一系列研究中,研究人员引导芝加哥区域乘坐公共交通工具的通勤者与身边的人搭话。通常来说,那些听从指示的乘客远比那些被告知独自站立或静坐的人感觉要好得多。研究人员还表示我们在日常生活中之所以羞于与陌生人交流是因为我们不必要的担心,觉得他们或许不愿意和我们交流。然而,大多数时候,这个想法都是错误的。正如实验结果显示,很多人实际上非常乐意交流——甚至有可能因你的关注而感到荣幸。

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