Should We Compare Ourselves With Others? 1.有些人认为有比较才有进步 2.有些人认为攀比会造成不良后果 3.我的看法

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问题 Should We Compare Ourselves With Others?
1.有些人认为有比较才有进步
2.有些人认为攀比会造成不良后果
3.我的看法

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答案 Should We Compare Ourselves With Others? Nowadays, many people advise us to compare with others, saying it is a beneficial way to make progress, to find out our weakness, and to fit in with the competitive world. Comparing with others, we are stimulated to make greater efforts to achieve higher goals, which makes it possible to develop our potentials. However, some sustain that comparing with others can make us feel inferior to others and undergo a lot of pressure. And if we try to copy the ones better than us, we will lose ourselves. On the other hand, comparison with the worse ones projects an illusory self-image. In our life, it’s not difficult to find someone who talks through his nose and overestimates his abilities as well as achievements. I’m convinced that everyone is unique, so we should not compare ourselves with others blindly or mechanically. The only comparison pattern that we really have is our consciousness. Then we’ll not feel better or worse than others and will accept ourselves as we really are.

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