规劝乃是朋友中间应有之义,但是谈何容易。名利场中,沆瀣一气,自己都难以明辨是非,哪有余力规劝别人?而在对方则又良药苦口忠言逆耳,谁又愿意让人批评他的逆鳞?规劝不可当着第三者的面行之,以免伤他的颜面,不可在他情绪不宁时行之,以免逢彼之怒。孔子说:“忠告则善道

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问题     规劝乃是朋友中间应有之义,但是谈何容易。名利场中,沆瀣一气,自己都难以明辨是非,哪有余力规劝别人?而在对方则又良药苦口忠言逆耳,谁又愿意让人批评他的逆鳞?规劝不可当着第三者的面行之,以免伤他的颜面,不可在他情绪不宁时行之,以免逢彼之怒。孔子说:“忠告则善道之,不可则止。”我总以为劝善规过是友谊之消极的作用。友谊之乐是积极的。只有神仙与野兽才喜欢孤独,人是要朋友的。“假如一个人独自升天,看见宇宙的大观,群星的美丽,他并不能感到快乐,他必要找到一个人向他述说他所见到的奇景,他才能快乐。”共享快乐,比共受患难,应该是更正常的友谊中的趣味。

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答案 A duty towards friends as admonition is, it is never easy to perform. Drifting alike in this Vanity Fair, we ourselves are lost in the stream, let alone being qualified to admonish others. On the other side, just as a good medicine is bitter in the mouth, faithful advice usually offends the ear; no one welcomes others to touch his sore spot. To save the face of the listener, admonition should not be given at the presence of a third party; it also should not be delivered when he is emotional restless lest it should stir his wrath. Confucius once said that " Sincere advice, if is to be offered, should be done in an amicable way or never. " As for me, I always believe that admonition is the negative effect of friendship.

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